There is a co-worker in my office who is displaying the same behaviors I did when I was active in my pornography addiction. This man has told me he is a Christian and has asked for pastoral advice in the recent past. I am strongly tempted to speak to him and possibly refer him to this blog, but in doing so I would be revealing a part of my past that is not known in my workplace.
I find myself asking how much I really believe in helping other people. Am I willing to help others only when it is ‘easy’, or am I willing to take a risk and do the right thing regardless of the price I may pay later? I think the real question is this: Will I let my decision-making be controlled by fear or love?
I probably just talked myself into the answer, but I’m curious: What would you do?